Well, it works for me. But I would recommend you two get some counseling first. There is a lot to marriage besides just living with your boyfriend. You two just really need to know you are right for each other. I am sure you do. Just consider..do you two have the same values. Do either of you have habits you can't stand..and can you live with that? Also, do either of you blow money on useless crap..can you deal with that and still have money left for bills and what not. Are either of you jealous? That is a big issue. If you two can go out with friends (without each other) without blowing up each other's phones then that is good. As long as you can talk to other guys without him getting all mad...its a bad sign. I mean, you two have to trust each other is what I am saying. Are you both secure enough in yourselves to devote your life to some one else? Are you selfless? There is just a lot of shit to consider.

When you are married you split finances, you go to bed each other each night...when you get mad at each other you can't run to your mom's. You have to have a talk about whether or not he is prepared to help you do some housework and what not. Like, each of your responsibilities. Is he neat? Are you neat? You know what I'm saying? Like, my husband is NOT neat...so I spend a good portion of the day picking up after him. Yeah. Its kinda ridiculous. And we have talked about it..on numerous occasions. Be prepared for a lot of talks and no changes. lol. Just sacrafices you have to make.

OMG. congrats! <3

Welcome to MDD lovee.

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